Hello, to all who decide to read my silly blog about my 3 huskies and our lives. I am giving this blog a reboot to keep track of our training progress. I also need a reminder that when I get busy with all that life throws at me, just taking time with my awesome furry four legged best friends always grounds me.
Mornings in this house can feel a little crazy sometimes. I get a little annoyed from time to time that my dogs don't like to deviate from their routine. When I get up I take them all out to pee this is normal for every dog owner. They have been good little creatures and not peed in the house all night but they really have to go. Aside from those negative temperature days that never annoys me.
We come back in and I usually have breakfast and then feed the dogs. No particular reason for that order. If I decide to make something that takes longer for breakfast the dogs get their food before I eat. I don't abide by any of the alpha nonsense a lot of trainers subscribe to. I can talk about that more another time but for now I am not saying we don't need to provide our dogs leadership, but some people misunderstand what a good leader is.Anyhow, we all eat around the same time in the morning then they all want to go out when they are done eating. Usually they have to poop, but apparently didn't have to poop before breakfast? I sometimes get annoyed by this second time out especially if it is single digit or below temps. Sometimes they just want to go out and sniff the front yard. We currently have chickens in the back and can't let them out unsupervised. On that note even if we didn't have chickens in the back they would not be able to go out off leash in the morning because they are too difficult to get back in. I do not like trying to chase them down when they would rather be outside half the day in the snow and cold. If we ever move one of my must have's in the new home is a big fenced in backyard where I don't have to take the dogs out and can just let them out. As of now we have to exit the back door and walk to the fence and open it. Also if we decide to keep chickens after this batch the new home would have to have a separate dog proof area.
Then I make sure they have water before I start my morning ritual. I drink a cup or two of coffee and listen to an audio book for a bit before I get to work. Much of my work can be done at home. I am not much of a early morning person so I do all that boring stuff while trying to wake up. From paperwork to household cleaning.
I have just started getting back to walking with the dogs during the day. I had so much going on after buying into a dance studio and learning to manage it, I had neglected to spend that valuable time with my dogs. My husband usually walked them during the adjustment period. After doing it a lot the past 2 weeks I realized how important it is to both me and the dogs to have that time with them. It is a time of peace and healing for me. To just spend time with my furry best friends who pretty much love me unconditionally and have a high capacity for forgiveness when I screw up. I am not a religious person but there really is something special about that relationship with a human and a dog. I am calmer and better able to handle life and the dogs are calmer after a great walk. It does not even have to be a very long walk. Even when I am teaching and training during the walk I am more at peace than when I am dealing with difficult people. It feels like working with the gifts mother nature has provided. It feels like dogs were made to fill our lives with happiness and joy as long as we learn to meet their canine needs.
I walk my two girls together and take Duke out by himself. The two girls are much easier to handle. Kira is not interested in humans and is not too bad around dogs. Maya is scared of humans and loves dogs but again she doesn't try to yank me towards them.
Duke on the other hand gets over excited on seeing anything! Humans and dogs are especially exciting. He would like to go over and tell them how excited he is by jumping all over them and screaming like a banshee. Needless to say, this is scarry for the humans and some of the animals he approaches. So I take him out alone right now so I can deal with this behavior. It is going to take time to deal with this in a humane and relationship building way but I have patience with animals. I realize they don't understand what I expect of them and that Duke is a challenge I have not dealt with before. We are going to obedience class tonight. He has had a loose leash walking class as well and I have been working with him as much as I can. He is really smart and learns quickly to do tricks and things he thinks are fun but he needs more appropriate outlets for his energy. I hope to get him into doggie dancing so when we have showcases at the dance studio we can do routines together. He needs a job and I think it will be perfect for him. He has the drive and the energy.
What I have gathered over the years with different dogs is that they all have their own unique personalities and that there is no one size fits all techniques to teaching dogs to be polite members of society. I have also learned that I have made a lot of mistakes. I have used training methods from people that are considered respected professionals that make my heart hurt a little and probably damaged my relationships with my dogs in the past and possibly Kira my black and white baby. I feel bad for the things I have done that have made my dogs feel like I am a crazed maniac that is very unpredictable. I vow to do my best to be more respectful to my animals while teaching them boundaries and manners. I am doing my best to learn what my dogs are thinking and feeling and telling me with their body language and vocalizations. Someday I will write about my first dog as an adult and the horrible issues we had that I am almost sure could have been resolved with proper training from the start.
I am learning to remember that my dogs to not speak English and I don't speak Dog. So when there is a training fail I need to figure out what I am doing wrong and how to be more clear in my communication with my dogs. In my opinion there is never any reason to use pain in any training session and really never a reason to be rough with a dog. We as responsible owners need to learn to understand how our behavior is confusing to dogs and realize poor dog behavior in most cases is our fault. There are dogs that are born with mental or physical issues and they are not included in my most dogs statement.
I am glad none of my dogs display aggressive tendencies. I am working towards bonding with my dogs as much as possible. I am going to spend much of my free time giving my dogs the best life they can have for the short time I get to spend with them.
I tried a few hobbies to help relax me but there is nothing better than seeing you dog happy and confident and excited to spend time with you.
I have Maya taking shy dog classes once a week and Duke taking at least one obedience class a week. My husband plans to go with me to Dukes classes so I hope to get some class photos and videos to document his progress. I can also rent the space sometimes for play with all three dogs. I am not sure about Kira I might take her to obedience classes to just to refresh then take her to the tricks class because she likes doing tricks training she is not going to be an agility dog. She is too much of a princess for that. While Kira could do all the agility things she would only jump as high as she wants to and she would complete each task in her own timing. She is the most chill husky you will ever meet.
I love the place we are taking the dogs. It is called The Zoom Room and it is in Perrysburg. The trainers are patient with me and the dogs. They love animals and have been super helpful when I ask questions. I probably won't get anything for it but if you decide to take your dogs because of this blog or my constant talking them up please drop my name as your referral. (Carrie Sund)